Even if this person is very unkind to me, I will often use a method to forgive the other person. That is, he is in cyclic life, death and rebirth, and I shall then not bicker with him! These pains and sufferings have to be all tolerated by him – the great suffering of life and death, the separation from what is pleasant, and the encountering what is unpleasant, etc. These sufferings have already tortured him until he is in a very poor state. Consequently I have forgiven him and I should provide good assistance to him instead.
《希望·新生》【四季法语】夏 #107 Summer · Four Seasons Words of Wisdom [Hope·Embark]