Even if this person is very unkind to me, I will often use a method to forgive the other person. That is, he is in cyclic life, death and rebirth, and I shall then not bicker with him! These pains and sufferings have to be all tolerated by him – the great suffering of life and death, the separation from what is pleasant, and the encountering what is unpleasant, etc. These sufferings have already tortured him until he is in a very poor state. Consequently I have forgiven him and I should provide good assistance to him instead.
《希望·新生》【四季法语】夏 #107 Summer · Four Seasons Words of Wisdom [Hope·Embark]
就算这个人对我很不好,我通常都用一种方法原谅别人,就是:他在生死轮回中,我不要跟他计较了!生死的大苦、爱别离、怨憎会等等的痛苦他都将承受,这些苦已经把他折腾得不成样子了,所以我就原谅他,愿该好好帮忙他才是。
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